Help at our Neediest

Why is it that at the time we need comfort or support most that we stray away from it as much as we can? I don't know about you but in my family we have quite a few people that are like this including myself. It's like we don't want to be any trouble even if someone's trying to go out of their way to help us. I notice also that a lot of people who are troubled for a little bit whether it's loosing a loved one or just going through a struggling time like being fired that we need God the most but we choose to pray less and less till were barely talking to him anymore. Does anyone ever feel like this? Well anyways I'd just like to encourage that we are all here to help echother and don't feel bad taking it. Especially when your friends are offering it because chances are they know you need it whether you know you need it or not.